Removing Toxic People From Your Life

Daily we get so busy punching a clock, making ends meet, and handling our responsibilities that we get overwhelmed. In those moments being over engaged in everything else, it is very easy to miss those influences that are right in front of us that need to be removed. Toxic people are like cancers, they grow into our lives and they slowly consume the lifeblood that is feeding the organism. When the host dies, they move onto another source and then consume the life and the resources of the new host.

One thing that many people do not know is that there are many examples of toxicity out there and the main problem is that you cannot allow it to fester. You need to out at the root and move forward in your success and in your destiny.

Here is What You Need to Know When You Remove People

1. Know No One Will Change But You
2. Sometimes Change Means Leaving
3. Create Boundaries and Keep Them
4. Know Your Weaknesses
5. Do Not Get Pulled Into Drama

Taking Control of Your Life

Taking Control of Your Life

Let's face it, we are all surrounded by toxic people, people who want different things and demand them of us. A few things you need to remember, you are in control here. You are under NO obligation to give anything that you want to anyone else. You have the ability to say no, and the ability to walk away at any moment without providing a further explanation. No one has a leash on you, you are not enslaved, you are not indebted and you are not dead. You have the ability to press the reset button on your life and do with it as you will immediately. You need to ask yourself, why have you not done it?

What is it that you are afraid of? Do you think you need someone's approval to take control of your life and to do what you want? The short answer to this is absolutely not. You are the master of your own destiny, and it is you only, who can put yourself where you want to be. You were not born royalty, no one is going to put a sceptre in your hand and present you with a kingdom. If there is something that you want you need to go for it.

Your life can be everything you want it to be in 5 years. But you must understand that your greatest enemy is looking you in the face, and that person is you. What can you do to get yourself aligned? How fast can you inspire yourself to be able to know where you need to go and what you need to do? The time is now!

Time is of the essence! Make a plan!

Melissa English is an author, screenwriter, and publisher based in the Los Angeles and Atlanta, GA areas. Follow her on Twitter @englishgirl777.